I read something the other day. It said 'sometimes the smallest steps in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life' It made me think of all of the little steps I didn't take because I despised the little or sometimes it was because I underestimated the importance of moving. To … Continue reading Take the step
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Behind the Scenes
When I started putting my thoughts down on paper, I didn't think that my writing will one day manifest into a book . In fact when I started writing in April 2016, I had no idea that anything I would write will one day be shared with the world. When I launched my blog, I … Continue reading Behind the Scenes
Missing you
The hardest part is not getting over the pain, it’s coming to terms with the lack of notifications popping up with your name on the screen The cheeky ‘good morning my princess’ messages and the exchange of silly tweets and videos through out the day. The hardest part is spending days without you and knowing … Continue reading Missing you
Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
Hi All, So as you may know, I spent almost half of my relationship living in a separate country from my ex. Although the relationship did not work out, contrary to popular belief, the distance was not the ultimate factor. I put up a poll on my instagram. The question is 'can long distance relationships … Continue reading Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
Letting go of an Ex starter pack
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
Anxiety Attacks: Overcoming The Trauma
7 months ago, I battled with anxiety attacks..Thankfully this only lasted a few weeks . And I’m grateful to God that this has not happened since. It had been a year since the last time I had one and so needless to say I panicked. I wrote this post at the time because I didn't … Continue reading Anxiety Attacks: Overcoming The Trauma
Transitioning: Jealousy
What they don't tell you is that jealousy is a part of the process. Jealousy! Yup I said it. I will be 100% honest with you with this one. After a tough break up and watching things fall apart unremorsefully, I found myself portraying traits that I least expected. At first I didn't mind having … Continue reading Transitioning: Jealousy
Transition 5 – letting go of our home
Today I came to collect a gift from our registry gift list. When the wedding was called off, I asked our gift register to issue a refund to all of our guest. It was so hard to do this as for many, this was how they found out that we were no longer together. I … Continue reading Transition 5 – letting go of our home
The Transitioning: A Letter to ATL
Dear Atlanta, Thank you. I came to you with many expectations and many fears. I mean you were my first. And as scary as it was, the excitement of seeing you, being with you and living like you made the fear trickle away. You were my first solo travel experience in a city that I … Continue reading The Transitioning: A Letter to ATL