The hardest part is not getting over the pain, it’s coming to terms with the lack of notifications popping up with your name on the screen The cheeky ‘good morning my princess’ messages and the exchange of silly tweets and videos through out the day. The hardest part is spending days without you and knowing … Continue reading Missing you
Last month saw numerous bouts of low moods, a heightened sense of insecurities and a large sense of loneliness. This isn't the first time I have felt this way. So when I noticed this in week one, I stayed silent. 'Let me go through this myself' I said. By week 2, I was operating in … Continue reading Suffering in silence
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
I never thought that the answer to my prayers would be the breaking of something I grew to love so dearly. Maybe if I had known, I would have never prayed that prayer. I would have been comfortable living with the ignorance of the truth that you were the biggest obstacle between me and my breakthrough. … Continue reading Desire VS Faith: Praying was painful
Recently I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed. At first I blamed it on all of the commotion going on in my life. For starters I am trying to juggle writing, working a 9-5, overseeing my business, figuring out this dating thing and pursuing some of the dreams I let slide. As exciting as it … Continue reading Transitioning: Tempted to settle
I can be 100% honest and say that after 2016, I never thought I would find it so hard to let go of anything. I mean I was stripped of so much. And although at the time it did not make sense, I am grateful. But after that experience I was under the impression that … Continue reading The Transition: Acceptance in singlehood
Why do relationships fail? Shouldn't love be fail proof? You know after my break up I was stuck in a trans of how, why me and is it all a dream. You never go into a relationship with the thought that this may one day fail. Well at least I never. With time I realised … Continue reading Failed Relationships: Why did my relationship fail?
Sometimes we have to learn how to put light and darkness together so we can see the beauty in lighting the things that hold us back Recently I have felt insecure about a few things. One being the feeling of inadequacy. Inadequate - Definition adjective lacking the quality or quantity required; insufficient for a purpose. … Continue reading Maybe I’m just insecure..
So I hope you read this to the end so you see why I'm telling you this story. So here it goes. When I was applying to university all those years ago, I had my mind set on the university I wanted to go to. I worked hard towards the grades and I had friends … Continue reading Making the hard decisions