After a long break from writing, I came back to my screen and found it hard to write. Sometimes in the silent seasons we feel that God is not speaking to us or that there is nothing more to give in that moment. But I have found that sometimes God simply wants us to complete … Continue reading Vulnerable
Wow she has put on weight! That boy is skinny! Nah I thought my bum was flat but her bum is missing mate!! Any of the above sound familiar? If the answer is yes it's probably because you've been guilty of saying this yourself. Often times I get upset when I walk into a family … Continue reading Body shaming
It was foolish of me to believe that life would all of a sudden be easy. That I was exempt from the challenges that everyone else face because 'I had been through enough' I believed that once it was over, I mean the crying, the recovery of the money lost and the heart ache, that … Continue reading There is a reason
Maybe if I lost the weight I wouldn't be single. After all who is checking for a size 14...ok ok size 16 girl with a barley there backside and boobs that aren't in proportion to the rest of her body? The worst thing is I have been 12kg (26 pounds or 2 stones) smaller than … Continue reading Body Image
My ex use to accuse me of dating him based on who he use to be and not who he was at the time we got back together. To add a bit of context, we were on and off for many years before we got engaged. The person I met him as and the person … Continue reading Date their reality or their potential?
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
One of the greatest and most troubling things about life is that everyone has the right to an opinion. If my friend came out wearing an outfit that was not to my standard, I have the right to express my honest opinion that her outfit is whack! Of course this 'right' of mine, won't change … Continue reading People will talk… let them
Happy new year guys! Firstly can I just start off by saying 2016 was one heck of a year! I started off last year optimistic for things that didn't quite happen. Anyone else able to relate? And so when it came to reflecting, I was a tad dissapointed. I mean it wasn't like small things … Continue reading Addicted to the bad stuff
Sometimes we have to learn how to put light and darkness together so we can see the beauty in lighting the things that hold us back Recently I have felt insecure about a few things. One being the feeling of inadequacy. Inadequate - Definition adjective lacking the quality or quantity required; insufficient for a purpose. … Continue reading Maybe I’m just insecure..