Imagine you have finally gotten back into the swing of dating or you have finally found someone you want to get to know a bit better and then just like that, you have been thrown into a non optional virtual relationship. Imagine if before social distancing, you and your partner decided to make it official … Continue reading Social distance dating
Behind the Scenes
When I started putting my thoughts down on paper, I didn't think that my writing will one day manifest into a book . In fact when I started writing in April 2016, I had no idea that anything I would write will one day be shared with the world. When I launched my blog, I … Continue reading Behind the Scenes
The hardest part is not getting over the pain, it’s coming to terms with the lack of notifications popping up with your name on the screen The cheeky ‘good morning my princess’ messages and the exchange of silly tweets and videos through out the day. The hardest part is spending days without you and knowing … Continue reading Missing you
After a long break from writing, I came back to my screen and found it hard to write. Sometimes in the silent seasons we feel that God is not speaking to us or that there is nothing more to give in that moment. But I have found that sometimes God simply wants us to complete … Continue reading Vulnerable
Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
Hi All, So as you may know, I spent almost half of my relationship living in a separate country from my ex. Although the relationship did not work out, contrary to popular belief, the distance was not the ultimate factor. I put up a poll on my instagram. The question is 'can long distance relationships … Continue reading Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
Date their reality or their potential?
My ex use to accuse me of dating him based on who he use to be and not who he was at the time we got back together. To add a bit of context, we were on and off for many years before we got engaged. The person I met him as and the person … Continue reading Date their reality or their potential?
Letting go of an Ex starter pack
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
All my eggs in one basket
Should I have put all of my eggs in one basket? Shortly after my relationship ended, I began to battle with myself on this. Maybe if I gave some of the other guys a chance then I wouldn't be in this predicament. Did I make the mistake at 19 of putting all of my eggs … Continue reading All my eggs in one basket
The Transition: Acceptance in singlehood
I can be 100% honest and say that after 2016, I never thought I would find it so hard to let go of anything. I mean I was stripped of so much. And although at the time it did not make sense, I am grateful. But after that experience I was under the impression that … Continue reading The Transition: Acceptance in singlehood