Last month saw numerous bouts of low moods, a heightened sense of insecurities and a large sense of loneliness. This isn't the first time I have felt this way. So when I noticed this in week one, I stayed silent. 'Let me go through this myself' I said. By week 2, I was operating in … Continue reading Suffering in silence
After a long break from writing, I came back to my screen and found it hard to write. Sometimes in the silent seasons we feel that God is not speaking to us or that there is nothing more to give in that moment. But I have found that sometimes God simply wants us to complete … Continue reading Vulnerable
Wow she has put on weight! That boy is skinny! Nah I thought my bum was flat but her bum is missing mate!! Any of the above sound familiar? If the answer is yes it's probably because you've been guilty of saying this yourself. Often times I get upset when I walk into a family … Continue reading Body shaming
Hi All, So as you may know, I spent almost half of my relationship living in a separate country from my ex. Although the relationship did not work out, contrary to popular belief, the distance was not the ultimate factor. I put up a poll on my instagram. The question is 'can long distance relationships … Continue reading Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
It was foolish of me to believe that life would all of a sudden be easy. That I was exempt from the challenges that everyone else face because 'I had been through enough' I believed that once it was over, I mean the crying, the recovery of the money lost and the heart ache, that … Continue reading There is a reason
My ex use to accuse me of dating him based on who he use to be and not who he was at the time we got back together. To add a bit of context, we were on and off for many years before we got engaged. The person I met him as and the person … Continue reading Date their reality or their potential?
Recently I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed. At first I blamed it on all of the commotion going on in my life. For starters I am trying to juggle writing, working a 9-5, overseeing my business, figuring out this dating thing and pursuing some of the dreams I let slide. As exciting as it … Continue reading Transitioning: Tempted to settle
I took a short break from blogging after I posted the blog : letting go of our home. The truth is, I posted that post impulsively. I remember the wait in the waiting room at the department store felt like years so I began to write. I wrote to take my mind off the pain. … Continue reading Transitionioning: A lot Can happen in a year
What they don't tell you is that jealousy is a part of the process. Jealousy! Yup I said it. I will be 100% honest with you with this one. After a tough break up and watching things fall apart unremorsefully, I found myself portraying traits that I least expected. At first I didn't mind having … Continue reading Transitioning: Jealousy
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