It was foolish of me to believe that life would all of a sudden be easy. That I was exempt from the challenges that everyone else face because 'I had been through enough' I believed that once it was over, I mean the crying, the recovery of the money lost and the heart ache, that … Continue reading There is a reason
Maybe if I lost the weight I wouldn't be single. After all who is checking for a size 14...ok ok size 16 girl with a barley there backside and boobs that aren't in proportion to the rest of her body? The worst thing is I have been 12kg (26 pounds or 2 stones) smaller than … Continue reading Body Image
My ex use to accuse me of dating him based on who he use to be and not who he was at the time we got back together. To add a bit of context, we were on and off for many years before we got engaged. The person I met him as and the person … Continue reading Date their reality or their potential?
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
7 months ago, I battled with anxiety attacks..Thankfully this only lasted a few weeks . And I’m grateful to God that this has not happened since. It had been a year since the last time I had one and so needless to say I panicked. I wrote this post at the time because I didn't … Continue reading Anxiety Attacks: Overcoming The Trauma
What they don't tell you is that jealousy is a part of the process. Jealousy! Yup I said it. I will be 100% honest with you with this one. After a tough break up and watching things fall apart unremorsefully, I found myself portraying traits that I least expected. At first I didn't mind having … Continue reading Transitioning: Jealousy
Stage 2: learn to trust God fully! I say fully because when you re-evaluate certain moments significant to your trials, you realise that you didn't truly trust God. Well at least I didn't. Trusting, was hard for me. Not because God isn't trustworthy, but because the knowledge of my past experience kept taunting me. Uprooting … Continue reading Transition week 3: Trust Him
I can be 100% honest and say that after 2016, I never thought I would find it so hard to let go of anything. I mean I was stripped of so much. And although at the time it did not make sense, I am grateful. But after that experience I was under the impression that … Continue reading The Transition: Acceptance in singlehood
Sometimes we have to learn how to put light and darkness together so we can see the beauty in lighting the things that hold us back Recently I have felt insecure about a few things. One being the feeling of inadequacy. Inadequate - Definition adjective lacking the quality or quantity required; insufficient for a purpose. … Continue reading Maybe I’m just insecure..