Hi All, So as you may know, I spent almost half of my relationship living in a separate country from my ex. Although the relationship did not work out, contrary to popular belief, the distance was not the ultimate factor. I put up a poll on my instagram. The question is 'can long distance relationships … Continue reading Long Distance Relationships. Top tips
It was foolish of me to believe that life would all of a sudden be easy. That I was exempt from the challenges that everyone else face because 'I had been through enough' I believed that once it was over, I mean the crying, the recovery of the money lost and the heart ache, that … Continue reading There is a reason
Maybe if I lost the weight I wouldn't be single. After all who is checking for a size 14...ok ok size 16 girl with a barley there backside and boobs that aren't in proportion to the rest of her body? The worst thing is I have been 12kg (26 pounds or 2 stones) smaller than … Continue reading Body Image
My ex use to accuse me of dating him based on who he use to be and not who he was at the time we got back together. To add a bit of context, we were on and off for many years before we got engaged. The person I met him as and the person … Continue reading Date their reality or their potential?
Hey lovely people! I'm back with another starter pack! Now I know there are no clear guidelines for this. How I handle something may be different to how you handle something. Additionally some people have a different outlook on things. For example, I don't believe I can remain good friends with an ex. Some people … Continue reading Letting go of an Ex starter pack
Dear Valentine, It's been a long road to this point. Before now Valentine's Day was another excuse for you to celebrate the love you once shared with someone else. You may not have been the happiest person but you certainly were someone who loved and was also loved. 2 years on and you have come … Continue reading A letter to my valentine
Ok so if you have ever read my New Years resolutions for the last 3 years, heard me speak about boundaries or read some of my captions, you will know that I am the QUEEN of telling people and myself to say NO but when it comes down to actually doing it.... I’m no where … Continue reading How to say NO starter pack
I questioned uploading this because I thought what if the people who in some way or another contribute to my disfatication, read this?! ‘Is this an indirect dig?’ ‘Is she trying to tell me something without telling me anything at all?’ I can hear all of the questions now. Well you guys know me! Eventually … Continue reading Dissatisfied
I never thought that the answer to my prayers would be the breaking of something I grew to love so dearly. Maybe if I had known, I would have never prayed that prayer. I would have been comfortable living with the ignorance of the truth that you were the biggest obstacle between me and my breakthrough. … Continue reading Desire VS Faith: Praying was painful
